To Desire, is to seek supreme soulful satisfaction in our imperfect senses when there is none, mortals like us cannot be permanently pacified by transiently gratifying sensual pursuits & resultant pleasures; but only by the spiritual awareness of what lies subtly inside each of us, when what we seek is only a lasting joyful union with Loveternal !
To Fear, is to be insecure & suspicious of the designs of the Careful Creator, the Unknown, our Source and thus to imprison ourself away from the unchosen but abundant flow of energetic freedom around-inside us, not to realise that we are ultimately destined for an inseparable unity with and the resultant immortality that our Source is.
The fears of limitedness, loneliness, likes-dislikes, unknown - render the limited insecure mind fearful, thus pressurising and constricting its flow of thoughts into seeking more, desiring more, craving for more asap in a realm of transient physicality thus sadly propagating the vicious pattern of pursuits, entrapments and pursuits; is it necessary to struggle ?
The desires born out of panic, out of fear of loneliness, fear of limitedness, fear of likes-dislikes, fear of incompleteness, soon entrap the desirer into seeking the limited due to the limitedness of his generated tiny thoughts; when we are to receive unlimited being born to the abundant unbiased unlimitedness.
Ironically, in present times the prevalent intense, insecure, fearful desiring patterns buttressed with feeling armed with an illusionary freedom to choose, we inadvertently but painfully and very securely chain our own self with our limited desires, then blame everyone else except our selfishness for the state that we land ourselves into. The self centric beings that we have proudly evolved into, is the reason for the unhappiness that we feel, the emptiness that we palpate, the loneliness in our thoughts and none else.
To Realise this basic principle of existence, is to feel Life as an effortless endless energy, encompassing eternity...A Lifeternal...!